Overview

Türkiye straddles Europe and Asia, offering a rich blend of cultural influences. Its cities are modern and cosmopolitan, while rural areas remain deeply traditional. Understanding this balance is essential for socializing and relationships.

Türkiye has a population of around 85 million people, making it one of the largest countries in the region.

People & Society

The majority of Türkiye’s citizens are ethnic Turks (around 70–75%). The largest minority are the Kurds (15–20%), mainly in the southeast. Other groups include Arabs, Laz, Circassians, Armenians, Greeks, and small Jewish and Assyrian communities.

The current president is Recep Tayyip Erdoğan, who has been in power since 2003 (first as Prime Minister, then as President since 2014).

Languages spoken: The official language is Turkish, spoken by the vast majority. Kurdish (Kurmanji and Zazaki) is widely spoken in the southeast. Arabic, Laz, and Circassian are used in smaller communities, while English is increasingly common in major cities.

Dating & Social Life

In Istanbul, İzmir, and Ankara, dating culture is open and influenced by Western norms. In conservative towns, family and tradition play stronger roles, and discretion is expected. Meeting through mutual friends is common, though dating apps and cafés are popular in urban centers.

“In general, it is not common to meet someone in random places and date them in Turkey. Usually you will meet through mutual friends.” — Reddit /r/AskTurkey

Nightlife & Meeting Places

• Sortie – Muallim Naci Cd. No:54, Kuruçeşme, Beşiktaş, Istanbul – Exclusive Bosphorus-side club and restaurant.
• Lucca – Cevdet Paşa Cd. No:51, Bebek, Beşiktaş, Istanbul – Stylish café-bar with a fashionable crowd.
• Klein – Harbiye Mah., Meşrutiyet Cd. No:29, Şişli, Istanbul – Popular nightclub with electronic music.
• Mitte Karaköy – Kemankeş Karamustafa Paşa Mah., Kılıç Ali Paşa Mescidi Sk. No:51, Beyoğlu, Istanbul – Trendy spot for drinks and socializing.

Etiquette & Customs

• Dress well; appearance is important.
• Respect family traditions and avoid controversial topics.
• Keep public affection subtle in conservative areas.

Law & Restrictions

Sexual activity under 18 is illegal. Public drunkenness can lead to arrest. Hotels often require passports for couples. In rural areas, dating without family knowledge may cause social problems. Laws against drug use are very strict.