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By Duncan Rhyne (2010)
Even though Malaysia primarily is an Islamic society (much stricter than Indonesia), and even though the previous prime minister, Mahathir, has been well-known on the world stage for his pronounced criticism of the West, Malaysia clearly is a modern country, with a young female population which in part is attracted to Western men. As Malaysia is not a poor country as Indonesia, and that young Malaysian women are attracted to Western men is not based on purely economic considerations. Like Philippine women, they often appreciate the prospect of living abroad, or seeing the world, which may come with a long-term relationship with a Western man.
So much in general.
But one has to be aware that there are three distinct ethnic groups in Malaysia: Malay, Chinese, and Indian.
If your interest is in a meaningful sexual relationship with a young Indian woman, Malaysia is clearly the best country in Asia. This is not only the case because Malaysia is the only Southeast Asian country with a sizable Indian minority.
Most things Indian are better in Malaysia than in India. Indian food is better in Malaysia than in India, and Indian girls are more beautiful.
If you recall that twice in the last few years, young Indian women have been crowned Miss World, scouting through India will by and large be disappointing. I know few countries where the percentage of attractive women in the general population is as low as in India.
By comparison, you can encounter breath-taking Indian beauties in Malaysia.
In all of Asia, the Malaysian capital Kuala Lumpur is the best place to build a sexual relationship with a young Indian woman.
In India itself, your only chance would be through a marriage bureau. And not just anywhere in India. Marriage bureaus in Calcutta may not even accept you.
Your best chance in India would be in Hyderabad, by far the most Islamic of Indian cities. This is where Arab men go to find second or third wives.
But it's not that there would be a real marriage bureau industry as it existed in the 80s in the Philippines. Those I have researched in Hyderabad also were really expensive for Asian standards, with fees around 1000 US dollars (non-refundable in case of failure to find a suitable wife). During the marriage bureau boom in the Philippines in the early 80s, the same kind of service would have been available for the equivalent of 50 US dollars.
Talking about marriage bureaus: Malaysian English-language newspapers run personal classifieds, and one regularly sees insertions by Western men who announce that they are seeking a Malaysian life partner. Some of these ads are inserted by Amrican and European agencies that specialize in Asian brides.
If you consider a sexual relationship with a young Indian woman, you should be aware of the fact that for Indians, looking for a match through newspaper classifieds is a natural thing to do.
In India, where personals are called matrimonials, newspapers typically carry hundreds or thousands of them, spread over many pages, on specific days during the week.
I am not suggesting that you get married. Not seriously, anyway.
"Kreutz sexual opportunities" is not about life-long communion. It is about temporary relationships of love and sex.
But in Malaysia, just as in other rather well-off Asian societies, you have to let them play with the thought that a lifelong union with you is within reach; otherwise, your chances of scoring will be slim indeed.
And mind you: as long as you haven’t signed that contract, you can easily get out of it with all kinds of excuses.
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